Back from Bonita Rochelle’s vision board party, and inspired is only the half of it.
Why is it when you share your future goals and expectations people reply with advice suggesting that you’ll end up old and unwed, living with cats and, knitting jumpers out of cat hairs, if you don’t prioritise marriage.
Like why is the future of any woman with goals and dreams beyond marriage grim, grey, lonely and miserable? Across all cultures to be honest, I can’t even claim this is just a Nigerian thing.
Let’s talk about all the things I’ve learnt/ ways I’ve upgraded myself this year. The years not over but I’m in a reflective mood soooo.... meh
Lately I've been all about living my truth. Thing is I'm not entirely sure what my truths are. What I do know is the more I try to distance myself from certain labels the more labels I attach to myself.
We've got enough wideheads spewing their ignorance all over the gaff, I don't need to add to it. However this Hijab Ban (EU Ban) gets a "hol'up, wait a minute" from me.